Predicting Potential Domestic Violence in Teenage Boys
Note: An updated version of this piece was published on July 9, 2017 on Blasting…
Living Life at Periscope Depth
I have observed a significant number of people in my lifetime who are risk aversive:…
Depression and Things That Make You Smile
My next door neighbor Gerry is a car nut. His son Chris, 36, is one…
Practicing Gratitude in a Slightly Different Way
What is gratitude? The common notion of gratitude is appreciation, or being grateful for life’s…
The Five-Minute Management Audit
Some time ago I took a tour of an organization that was interested in having…
Introverts Are Not Mentally Ill
I became an extrovert at about age nine. In fact, I quickly became the class…
Fat Boys Go to the Fair
For the third straight year the Boys attended the Amador County Fair. We went on…
Picking the Right Therapist
The Therapeutic Alliance The most important thing in the therapist-patient relationship is the Therapeutic Alliance….
Fat Boy Racing Team Goals
Reduced to bird watching…. Fat Boys Are Born I was fat…
The Psychology of the Awkward Pause
When I think of an awkward pause I visualize a reaction to the unexpected; an…
How to Avoid Yes People
1. Don’t hire them in the first place. Ask questions in the job interview like,…
Negative Self-Talk
Our inner critic is no doubt our harshest critic – always with us, judging, attentive,…
How to Shed Perfectionist Tendencies
Perfectionism is a mental disorder. Too strong? How about an affliction. Actually it is an anxiety disorder…